Note Two

"My trouble is I analyze life instead of live it" - Hugh Prather

I couldn't have put it any better. Many a time, decisions are obvious from the choices before me but somehow, an inner conflict ensues. I over-think the simplest of situations and end up clouding my judgment, in the end I have a string of bad decisions and regrets about 'what could have been'.

I do not speak of calculative contemplation -which is imperative in any decision making - , I here speak of ignoring the obvious choice because of the infinite "what ifs" that arise.

The mind has it's special way of subconsciously processing information. When faced with options, we always somehow know what's right, yet do not always act upon it. That subconscious calculator is not to be taken lightly, it is the product of great design or evolution, whichever side you're inclined to. It is perhaps the core of your individuality, never to be taken lightly.

Note to self: Listen attentively to self.

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